Red Flags
From AFSWiki
The AFS experience is challenging and at times stressful. AFSers find that overcoming the challenges makes them stronger, more independent and self-confident. AFS has also learned that there are some characteristics which make it difficult for a student to succeed during the experience and to reap the potential benefits for student participants. These red flags can be identified and noted during the interview and application process or can arise while a student is on program. Signs to watch for include candidates or participants who:
- Expect an AFS program to be a vacation or who are looking for an escape.
- Exhibit extreme personalities: either totally independent, aggressive, arrogant or extremely withdrawn, passive, always trying to please
- Illustrate an unwillingness or inability to make emotional commitments and sustain positive interpersonal relationships
- Have overbearing parents who are pushing their children beyond their own interests or capacities.
- Or have parents who are overly protective and resistant to allowing their child space and independence.
